If your date leans in as well, then you can go for the kiss. The key is looking for a window of opportunity to arise. A lot of times, this happens when the other person is making deep eye contact with you and leaning in. However, if your date doesn’t lean in or turns away from you, it’s a good idea not to kiss at that moment. Don’t take it personally, your date might not be ready emotionally for a kiss.
Learn to read your date’s body language to be a better kisser for them. For example, if your date pulls away from you, you should slow the kiss down and maybe even take a break.
If your girlfriend starts to kiss you and gets overzealous, pull back and give gentle kisses on your girlfriend’s neck or ear to reset. Then, work your way back to gently kissing her lips. Give your boyfriend a few gentle peck kisses on the lips before slightly opening your lips.
Say “Mmm, this is how I love to kiss you”
By playing this game, you’ll find out what kind of kisses you both like and it will help you become closer to each other.
If you enjoy kisses on your neck leading up to your lips, let your boyfriend know this is what really turns you on. Maybe you enjoy being surprised by an impromptu makeout session. Tell your girlfriend you really want to be surprised by her kissing you when you least expect it.
Snuggle up on the couch with the lights down low to create an intimate mood. Bring your date on a picnic and pick an area away from other people to enjoy each other’s company.
Say things like, “I like that” or “that feels good” during a kissing session are a great way to show your appreciation.
