Just don’t be too obvious about trying to catch her staring at you, or she may think that you’re the one staring at her.
Just make sure she’s not the kind of girl who blushes whenever she talks to any guy – she could just be shy around guys.
Next time you talk to her, see how much she laughs. Try a small joke and see if she laughs way too much – this may mean that she has feelings for you.
If the girl’s friends always greet you with a knowing smile, then they may be telling you that the girl likes you.
If you’re in the same social circle, but she’s been around a lot more lately, then it may be because she has a crush on you.
If you see her unexpectedly, and she’s dressed down a lot more, then she may be dressing up to impress you. If you see her at the grocery store or somewhere unexpected, and she makes a joke about how casual she looks, then she may be embarrassed that she’s not more dressed up for you.
If she plays with her hair when she talks to you, then this may mean that she’s nervous because she likes you. If she shifts her weight from foot to foot, she may be a bit nervous about talking to you too. If she breaks eye contact and looks at the floor once in a while, it may be because she likes you.
Check out how the girl acts around other guys. If she’s the same way with everyone, then it’s just part of her personality. If she treats you differently, however, and pays more attention to you – or less attention, because she feels shy about talking to you – then she may have a crush on you.
See if she teases all of the guys, or just you. If she teases everyone, then she may just be a playful person. But if it’s just you, then you’re special to her.
See if she’s the type of girl who is just really nice and gives everyone compliments, or if she only says flattering things to you. Who knows – maybe she’s just really, really nice. But probably not. If she compliments a new shirt or a new haircut, that means she notices when your wardrobe or looks change, which already is a strong sign that she has a crush on you.
If she likes you, she may even try to talk to you about something she know that you love, like a sport or favorite TV show. She could come up to you just to ask if you saw last night’s game or to ask what you thought about the season finale of your favorite show. She could share your interests too, of course, but she could also be using them as an excuse to talk to you.
There’s only one other option – she could be asking if you like anyone because one of her friends like you and she’s acting as a go-between. If you tell her you don’t like anyone, and she says something like, “How can you not like anyone?” “You must like someone. . . " Then she really wants you to tell her that you like her. Even the fact that she takes any interest in your love life shows that she has romantic feelings for you.
It’s okay for her to be jealous before you start dating – just make sure it isn’t a problem if she does end up being your girlfriend.
There’s only one other option – that she wants to date one of your friends. But if she never asks about any of your friends, then chances are that she has her eye on you.
If she says she wishes that a guy she went on a date with had a better sense of humor and she always praises your sense of humor, then she’s basically telling you that she wants to date you. If she’s always comparing you favorably to other guys, then she’s letting you know that she likes you more than any other guy around.
If she texts you a smiley face or just a word like “hehe,” then she’s flirting with you.
Your guy friends may also know if the girl likes someone else instead of you. This could be helpful information before you try talking to the girl yourself. Just try not to ask anyone too chatty, or a guy who is very friendly with the girl. If you do, the guy may tell her that you asked, and he’ll blow your cover.
Don’t make a big deal about it. Don’t reveal your feelings about the girl.
If she does admit she has a crush on you and you like her, then ask her out on a date and see where it takes you. If she says she doesn’t have a crush on you, react the right way. Don’t get all upset or offended – just play it cool and show her what a great guy you are.
