This includes ideas that are difficult to talk about. You may think you should “protect her,” but she is a smart, capable person just like you. She’ll feel more touched that you trusted her than hurt by what you have to say.

If you have trouble making eye-contact, look between her eyes or at her earlobe. If you’re a few feet away, most people won’t notice that you’re not looking at their eyes. [3] X Research source

Make eye-contact as you listen. Ask her simple questions like, “how was your day?” and “what do you think of that?”

The more genuine and specific your compliment, the better it will be. Think about what you really love about her and let her know. Don’t just spit the lines you’ve heard in movies. [5] X Research source

Being supportive is about being there when she needs you. Even if something seems small to you, you need to show her that you care when she’s upset. If she seems upset, but won’t talk, don’t push her. Just listen. Ask her if there “is anything on your mind?” or simply “how is everything going. " Asking her “if something is wrong” implies that there is something bad happening, which can cause her to close up.

Pull her into you, lean in and kiss her. Let her do the same. When it comes to kissing, don’t always take charge. Hug her from behind and kiss her on the cheek as a surprise “Hello. " Cuddle with her when you lay down or sit together. Put an arm around her shoulder or kiss her shoulder. Hold her from behind and rest your neck on her shoulder.

Head to the local SPCA and play with some animals for a cuddly free date idea. Go out for a hike or walk in the local park and pack a picnic dinner or lunch for the ending. Check your local paper for events, from street festivals to outdoor music and theater.

Occasionally, have a little fun by celebrating a goofy holiday or anniversary, like the first time you cooked together or National Talk Like a Pirate Day. [6] X Research source

Offer her your arm when she’s in heels, or hold hands through busy crowds. Let her go first through doors, down the street, and into the car. Offer her your seat, especially when they are limited (like on the bus). Avoid showing off or talking about yourself. [7] X Research source

Try not to use words like “hot” or “sexy. " Instead, try “gorgeous” or “beautiful,” which are a little gentler and apply to more than just her breasts and butt.

It is perfectly okay to have things you talk about with the boys but not your girl. You don’t ever need to lie to her, you just don’t have to bring up certain things. Some topics, like the new Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Edition, are meant to stay between the guys. [8] X Research source

During a quiet, calm moment, ask her about her sexual preferences and desires casually. Don’t have this conversation in the heat of the moment, but some other time, where the talk can be cool and casual.

Don’t treat her any differently in public than you do in private. Living a dual life is not only hard, it’s unsustainable. Treat her with the love and respect she deserves both at home and in the wider world. [9] X Research source