Fabric or leather are likely to be the most comfortable choker materials.

Measure your neck before shopping for chokers. Make sure to add 2 inches (5. 1 cm) to your neck measurement in order to find a comfortable fit.

Silver jewelry often looks best on cool-toned skin, while gold looks best on warm-toned. Determine your skin tone to decide which metals will complement you best.

For example, you could choose a geometric piece, such as something metal, structured, and more architectural. You could also opt for something more boho, such as a braided leather strand. [4] X Research source

If your choker has a clasp, check for an adjustable chain with several loops to choose from, or just one loop to attach the clasp to. Plastic tattoo chokers should be stretchy enough to fit over your head and around your throat. Wrapped chokers should comfortably circle your throat several times, with the ends tied or left hanging. Fabric chokers should wrap around your throat once and tie in the back, with the ends loose.

To attach the clasp, you may want to turn the necklace around so the clasp is in the front, then look in a mirror to have a clear view. Close the clasp, then rotate the choker back around so the clasp is at the back.

If your choker is not adjustable and continues to feel uncomfortable or too tight, it may be too small for you. Look for a different choker that you can adjust to get the perfect fit. [7] X Research source If you have trouble finding a choker that fits, measure your neck’s circumference with a tailor’s measuring tape or a piece of string, then look for chokers specifically in your size. [8] X Research source

Generally, you shouldn’t mix metals, so choose 2 longer necklaces made from the same metal as the choker. For example, pair silver with silver and gold with gold—this will make your necklace trio look more cohesive. Vary the necklaces’ lengths for a more balanced, curated look. The second necklace should be around 22 to 24 inches (56 to 61 cm) and the third necklace should be around 30 to 32 inches (76 to 81 cm).

Show off your choker by wearing a scoop or V-neck. [11] X Expert Source Kalee HewlettImage Consultant Expert Interview. 20 April 2021.