You could say, “Hey, do you want some help with the bill?” or “Would you like to split the bill?”

For instance, you might say, “I’ve been sexually active within the last few months, but I’ve been tested since then. "

For example, you might say, “I enjoyed our evening a lot. I hope we can do it again sometime. " Alternatively, you could say, “Thanks for the evening. Let’s do it again soon. "

You can say, “Hey, do you mind if I give you a hug or kiss?”

For instance, you might write, “I really had a good time last night. Let’s do it again sometime!” Alternatively, you might say, “Thanks for a great evening last night! Hope to see you again soon. " Avoid going overboard, such as “I had SOOO MUCH FUNNNN. You’re absolutely AMAZING. LET’S GO OUT AGAIN TONIGHT. "

For instance, you might say, “I enjoyed tonight. You’re easy to talk to. " That tells the person that you enjoyed their company, but you don’t necessarily want to do it again if you leave it there. Alternatively, you might say, “Thanks for dinner. It was a nice evening. "

If the other person looks like they want to kiss you, make a movement to go or turn away. You don’t have to kiss them, and just avoiding the kiss altogether instead of saying something about it lets them save face. If that doesn’t work, you can say, “That’s sweet of you, but I’m not comfortable kissing or hugging on a first date. "

For instance, if they say, “So, when are you free again?” You might say, “I wouldn’t mind hanging out with you again but just as friends. " Alternatively, you might say, “I am flattered by the offer, but I’m just not interested in being more than friends. "

It seems amicable, but you’re actually setting the other person up for disappointment.

For instance, you might say, “Thank you for the date and spending time with me tonight. "

Be polite but to the point. For instance, you might say, “I enjoyed going out with you, but I think we’d make better friends. "

For instance, you might say “Thank you for the date, but I think we might need to call it early. "

For instance, you might say, “I’ve enjoyed the date, but I really need to get home. I have an early morning. "

You can say, “Thanks for the invite to go to dinner, but I think I’m ready to head home. "

If you’re in immediate danger, get up to go the bathroom. Tell a waiter or staff person the situation, and ask them to call the police.