For example, if you know he likes to rock climb, plan a trip to the local climbing gym at a time he’s likely to be there. You might even tell him it’s your first time and see if he can help you get started. This might give you the opportunity to flirt and invites casual physical contact. Find out when he plans to study at the library, and what the subject is, then randomly show up at the same time with the similar material.

“Can you show me how you do the card trick you did at the party?” “I’m thinking about going to the mall to get a bite to eat. Care to show me your favorite food in the area?” “Hey, you’re pretty good with computers. Can you teach me some of your skills?”

Make time to fit into his schedule. You may have to sacrifice some time. Listening to his issues is key. See if he’s having issues in any classes. Ask if he’d like to study or do classwork together.

If you are sitting next to each other, flirt with your eyes. Look him in the eyes and smile. Keep eye contact for a bit longer than normal. Mimic his body movement. Lean closer when he leans in. Smile when he smiles. Lick your lips. If you see him looking at your lips, lick them nonchalantly. Don’t do this a lot. You want to be somewhat suggestive, not compulsive. When you catch him looking at you, smile a little and look down. Then look back up at him, smiling coquettishly the entire time. [5] X Research source Play with your hair. Natural grooming movements are often performed by both sexes when trying to impress. [6] X Research source

Hug him back. If he comes in for a hug, invite it happily, and be sure he’s the first one to let go. Play with his hair. When you see a strand or two out of place, reach up and gently swipe them. Use discretion, or it may be very off-putting.

Hook his arm and say, “Look how little my arm is next to yours!” Touch his hair and tell him, “Your hair is so cute this way. ” ”I could stare into your baby-blues for hours. ”

Grab his hand when you’re walking next to one another. Ask him to help with something with which you obviously don’t need help. If it’s simple, he’ll pick up on the fact that you’re just making up a reason for him to see you. While in his presence say, “I wish I could find a boyfriend. ” Tell him about a pretend dream where you two were dating. Do not be overly intimate before he makes a move. You want to be obvious, not desperate.

”Do you think I’m pretty?” ”I’m a pretty good catch, don’t you think?” ”I think most guys would be lucky to have me as a girlfriend. Don’t you agree?”

Don’t push him to talk about love. Guys are often hesitant to talk about it. Make sly comments about how you two look would look good as a couple. Definitely do not mention anything about marriage. Do not say, “I love you. ” To someone who hasn’t even made the first move, this will not be received well.

Find out if you two have similar values. If you find out your values are drastically different, you may not be a good match. See if he’s cheated on an ex. Ask him about how previous relationships ended. A lack of trust is a guaranteed sign of relationship problems. [9] X Research source

Show him something cherished of yours, like a favorite book. Talk to him about why it holds significant meaning to you. He will appreciate your honesty, and that you’re not afraid to be yourself. Mention some of your hobbies and see if he responds favorably.

If he smiles a lot at you, or teases you, there is a good chance he likes you. [10] X Research source When he distances himself from you, he’s probably not into you. Constant questions about you are good signs that he shares your attraction. [11] X Research source Invitations to social events are great signs of interest.