Most boys begin to have a more distinct body odor in middle school. Combat this by wearing deodorant. Avoid using strong colognes such as Axe unless it is in small proportions. If the smell is overbearing, ladies won’t want to hang out too close. If you feel the need to use cologne, use it sparingly. Try choosing a deodorant that smells refreshing with a hint of musk. [3] X Research source

Even if your middle school requires uniforms, you can still pull off a sharp look by caring for your clothes. Do not let your clothes get shabby or smelly. As a general rule, don’t wear a top more than one day. Pants should only be worn two to three times before a wash.

You can reach a confident state of mind by dressing in a way that comforts you. Once you’re out the door, don’t look back on what you’re wearing. Live in the moment and don’t worry about your clothes out of the house. [6] X Research source

When you’re sitting down put your back against the backrest of the chair, put your knees at a right angle, and keep your feet flat on the floor. Avoid slumping forward while standing or sitting. Try to look ahead of you while walking instead of looking down at the ground. [8] X Research source

Do not be overly nice or it will come across as phony. Also, be nice to her friends because friends often influence how someone feels about another person.

Don’t be a bully.

Make her feel special in anyway that’s available to you. For example, if there is only one candy bar left and you both reach for it, offer it to her.

You can be compassionate by showing encouragement to her and others. Positive reinforcement goes a long way in middle school and is often overlooked. [12] X Research source Try out some positive messages in your day at school like “Don’t even worry about that math test, Shonda. I know you’ll ace it!” or “Good luck with your soccer tryout, Bill!”

“Hey do you know if Lauren has a boyfriend?” “I want to ask Kris to the movies. You think she’d go with me?” Use your friends to relay information as well. [13] X Research source

If you notice she got a haircut, compliment her on it. Try complimenting her if she is wearing something that looks like it took effort. [15] X Research source Compliment her in aspects other than her appearance like: “Woah, Sujata, you really killed it on the electric guitar” or “I wish I was as good as you at Math. "

You can also try asking open-ended questions, or ones that require more than a yes or no response. Try something like “So Jamie, what movie would you recommend?” or “How did you figure out that problem so fast?” This will establish a closeness with her that could develop into something more.

Everyone has the ability to flirt and everyone does it a little differently. Find your style through practice. If you find some guys are playful while they’re flirting and you’re more polite, don’t try to imitate some else’s style. [17] X Research source

Don’t go to elaborate lengths to impress her either. Bring it up if it is appropriate. Nobody likes a showoff. Attraction is all about learning to reveal and receive.

Use your friends to tell her group of friends that you like her. Never ask a friend to ask the girl out. You always need to ask her out yourself.