Speak more. Introduce yourself to people you see daily but don’t talk with often, and you’ll see how quickly your amount of relationships grows. You can also do this by presenting more; whether you’re answering a simple question or reading an essay in front of a large audience, people will get to meet you and talk with you if you present.
Self-assess and find out why you’re talkative. If you’re filling a void, maybe feeling trapped and alone in home or at school or work, or crave the attention, consult a professional therapist for help overcoming these issues. These are often too deep to penetrate yourself.
If somebody asks something personal, such as, “What do you do for your birthday?” answer with something such as, “I’m always with my family and we have a small tradition. Sometimes friends get to come if they’re close, otherwise I have a birthday party. We do something different each year. " This will leave people wanting to know 1) what the tradition is, 2) why the friends who come to the family celebration get to come, and 3) what happens at the birthday parties. They’ll have to talk to you more to find out.
Let’s say you’re a girl and you met a boy at your friend’s party at a roller rink who chatted you up about maybe hanging out. You could say, “I was at a party someplace and met a cute guy. He suggested going somewhere, but I don’t know if I’m busy. " This leaves the people you told it to wanting to know 1) whose party, 2) party where, 3) who the guy was, 4) what he said to you, and 5) why you might be busy. Being vague can’t be stressed enough.
An example of a double multimedia conversation would be, “We should chat more! Do you have a phone number or Kik?” If the answer was to be no, continue with, “Maybe a snapchat or Facebook?” By now, if they haven’t had any, they should tell you that they either 1) don’t have any social network accounts, or 2) have a different social network account and will proceed to give it to you.
Kids have a powerful imagination. But as they grow old, it is replaced by the logical mind. You should bridge the gap between imagination and logic. So keep playing and be curious. Do not allow the outside world to reduce your passion, enthusiasm, and excitement for play. [5] X Research source
Make sure you can take things seriously. Laughing or being funny too much can ruin relationships and bring your social status down a few rungs on the ladder. If somebody is going through a hard time, it may be okay to tell a joke to cheer him or her up, but not a joke about the situation.
Don’t constant flaunt these different features. There’s a huge difference between sharing your interests and forcing something down others’ throats. Like what you like, but don’t show them around like they’re any more important than the mainstream.
