5 Ways To Tell A Guy You Love Him

After sex. While intoxicated. Over text or the phone. During or after a fight or argument. [1] X Research source

Ask him to go for a walk with you, help with a basic chore, or simply “come over to talk with me for a few minutes. " You don’t have to plan to be at a cheesy “rom-com” setting like an ocean cliff, but it shouldn’t be in a dirty alleyway either.

Just start talking honestly about your relationship – how happy he makes you, good memories you’ve shared, your own feelings – to bring up the topic of love organically. [2] X Research source

“I’m in love with you. " “Joe, I want you to know that these past eight months have been some of the happiest of my life. I feel like we’ve connected on a deep level and every day we spend together is better than the last. I love you. " “I’ve had something on my chest for a while, and it feels good to let it out. I love you. " Lean in, and kiss him on the cheek, then whisper in his ear quickly, “I love you. "

Let them know that you’d rather talk to them in person, but couldn’t keep your feelings secret any longer. Elaborate a bit on a story, event, or emotion that lead you to your feelings of love. Let him know that you don’t need an immediate response; you just wanted to let him know how you felt. [3] X Research source

Hold or squeezing hands Make plans together for the future, even just future dates Introduce your friends and/or family Surprise him with kisses, hugs, and affection Give compliments, encouragement, and admiration. Do little favors for him, especially when he seems upset.

Don’t ever let a partner get you to do something you don’t want to to “prove your love. " Love doesn’t need to be proven. [6] X Research source

These words mean much more when you mean them. If you only say “I love you” when you’re feeling full of love, you’ll both be much happier.

When talking, try to phrase everything personally – “I realized I love you,” “I fell for you, etc. – instead of using language like “we” and “us. "

Some silence, though it may feel awkward, is not a bad thing. He may be a bit shocked and need time to digest the news – don’t feel like one of you must always be talking.

Keep talking regularly, having open and honest conversations about your relationship. Don’t feel the need to tell him you love him every day now – actions speak louder than words.

If he’s already said “I love you,” and you know you feel the same, feel free to come out and say it. If your relationship is strong, and you know him and yourself well, it might be time to say “I love you. " If you’re convinced you’re in love, and need to tell him so, then trust your instincts and say it. If you want to tell him just to see if he’ll say “I love you” back, or because you feel pressured to say it, don’t. Love is something you give to others, it doesn’t expect or need someone else’s response. [9] X Research source If you’re just friends, but want more, you should consider asking him out before saying you love him. [10] X Research source

At the end of the day, this is about you confidently telling him how you feel. If you’re not sure if he likes you back, that is okay! That’s why you want to tell him your own feelings. Is he comfortable hanging out with just you? If not, telling him you’re “in love” might come off a little too strongly.

Ask a mutual, trusted friend if they can see you two dating. Talk to one of his friends and see if he is interested in anyone right now. If you’re feeling bold, ask if he has any feelings for you. [11] X Research source

“I just wanted to tell you that I really like you. " “I love spending time with you. This has been a great few months. " “Let’s go on a few dates, just you and me for a change. "

If you don’t still feel attached to him after the a few days, then you had a crush, not love. Love stays around for a long while.